CnW 10-7(Thursday)

[soapy]

thien, I keep the graphics turned off as it is faster for me with dialup...

[soapy]

Peeps, have fun on your trip. We saw the foilage up North last week and also went the day before to see Iowa play so hope this will be a quieter weekend. See you Monday!

[brooke]

Lucie and Peeps still not doing good had to let it out earlier

[khrystha]

Oct 7, 2010 16:33:27 GMT -5 brooke said:

Lucie and Peeps still not doing good had to let it out earlier

Oh no!!!

What is wrong sweetie

[brooke]

Oct 7, 2010 17:07:27 GMT -5 khrystha said:

Oct 7, 2010 16:33:27 GMT -5 brooke said:

Lucie and Peeps still not doing good had to let it out earlier

Oh no!!!

What is wrong sweetie

still in mourning I keep hoping this is a dream and someday I will wake up and he is fine and healthy

[khrystha]

Oct 7, 2010 17:43:31 GMT -5 brooke said:

Oct 7, 2010 17:07:27 GMT -5 khrystha said:

Oh no!!!

What is wrong sweetie

still in mourning I keep hoping this is a dream and someday I will wake up and he is fine and healthy

I know the feeling Brooke

I really do... I'm so sorry to hear it...Just don't hide your feelings... it will help you to grieve... but grieving needs a lot of time. Some days, it's not that bad... but other days... it's awful

When I was on this mood, I was always trying to fix an objective.. a realistic one... not a big one... just to help me to get through the day more easily....

For example, when my dad passed away 7 years ago, the first days were very rough because all I was thinking was the way my father was.

The days passed and each day, it was a little easier...

First I had put an objective to achieve... and When my objective was achieved I was kind of proud of myself, because I know, deep down that my father was looking out for me in heaven and that he was smiling. Sometimes just remembering a little something that made the other person happy was enough!!!

It could be whenyou were joking with him...or giving him a hug... or listening to music... Only one goal at a day that will help you to get through this....


I don't know if I make sense... but it helped me a lot with my losses over the years...

I know that it's not a miracle solution... I don't think that a miracle solution exists in this kind of situation... I guess the important thing is to be able to grieve. It's important to tell to people that you care about that this uncle was an important person in my life and that without him or her... life won't be the same.

But, someday... somehow... the sun will rise again and when you will think about your uncle... a smile on your face will shine... You will remember all the good things about him and you will feel blessed to have known him...completely...

I know it's no comfort, but just try to not forget that these things take time to heal... and it's ok if you're sad and if you feel like you want to cry...

Just remember that people need you in their life and they need you to be happy as much as they are...

People love you Brooke... never forget that

You will get through this... I have no doubt about it...

Take care of you...*hugs*

[dmoore]

Hey B!! I'm so sorry, I agree with Lucie. Take whatever time you need to grieve. You've suffered a horrible loss and you don't have to be strong all the time. Somedays will be better than others but whenever you have a bad day, just take life one moment at a time. When I lost two grandmothers in 2008, I found it easier to take the bad days in little bits. Try 15 min, 30 min or an 1hr. Focus on the good memories, focus on Favre getting his ass kicked, Kobe and the Lakers winning another championship, whatever puts a smile on your face. When the sadness passes, you go on.

Remember that your uncle is in a place where he hurts no more. I know it's hard for the ones left behind but he was set free. Rejoice in that and hold tight to the memories and know that we are here for you!!!!

Love you B!

[khrystha]

Oct 7, 2010 19:40:47 GMT -5 dmoore said:

Hey B!! I'm so sorry, I agree with Lucie. Take whatever time you need to grieve. You've suffered a horrible loss and you don't have to be strong all the time. Somedays will be better than others but whenever you have a bad day, just take life one moment at a time. When I lost two grandmothers in 2008, I found it easier to take the bad days in little bits. Try 15 min, 30 min or an 1hr. Focus on the good memories, focus on Favre getting his ass kicked, Kobe and the Lakers winning another championship, whatever puts a smile on your face. When the sadness passes, you go on.

Remember that your uncle is in a place where he hurts no more. I know it's hard for the ones left behind but he was set free. Rejoice in that and hold tight to the memories and know that we are here for you!!!!

Love you B!

So true D

I agree with you 100%

I will post here in the spoilers section every week the SOW and SID (each two weeks).

I have a digital subscription with these magazines... and I thought that I would share it with you my friends!!!



Love you all!!!

[brooke]

Thanks you both. I knew this was gonna be tough but I dont think it really sunk in until I had to say goodbye to him it still seems surreal to me. my head is telling me he is gone but my heart is telling me differently

He was way too young, it is a shame and makes me mad that such a loving, caring man is gone too soon

I started to put some stuff I got on my bulletin board that I have my grandparents stuff on(his parents) it makes me sad

[dmoore]

Thanks Lucie! I'd love to see the spoilers.

Hugs B!

[brooke]

don't know why today seems like a Sunday

[dmoore]

I'm glad tomorrow's Friday!! Woo Hoo!!!